Stranger Helps After Mom's Car Breaks Down With Kids
And now, after ranting about the evil in the world, something to restore some faith in humanity. A good story.
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I've picked up mothers, with children, a couple of times in my life. Once, I even had my wife and kids in the car. The temps were in the 90's, they were stranded along the highway and cellphones had yet to be introduced to mankind.
More recently, I spotted a dead (POS) car along the road near my home. A girl and her boyfriend/husband only asked that I call a former neighbor of theirs to help them, which I did. Turns out, this former neighbor was a 78 year old widower who this couple had probably been taking advantage of for years. I almost felt sorry for the fellow, but we are responsible for our own actions. I think I would have claimed a kidney stone, or something...
The harsh reality of our society is this - most men aren't man enough to stick around and protect their offspring. It's kind of funny but I remind me kids of this when they piss me off. "You know your buddy XXX? Notice how he doesn't have a daddy? His daddy decided he'd rather sit around with his buddies playing video games than put up with this kind of s*&%." Haha...
This is in the same vein as Deepak Chopra and virtue of suffering.
"Tonight I was talking to one of our editors, Danna Prosser, just as Hillary Clinton walked out to accept the Democratic nomination for President.
I looked at the monitor for a moment. And when I looked back at Danna, I noticed she was crying.
I asked her what was going on.
She said: “Seeing Hillary Clinton tonight makes me proud to be a woman. I wish my mom was still alive. She was a huge supporter of Hillary Clinton. I wish she was here to see this.” It was a really touching moment.
Danna reminded me of what tonight is all about. It doesn’t matter whether you support Hillary Clinton or not. It’s history in the making.
A woman has finally been nominated for President by a major party. And I think that's something that can make us ALL proud to be an American." -- https://www.facebook.com/FrankSomervi...
Women have been nominated to run for President since before women could vote. That the so-called "major" parties are behind the times has always been true. Note, also, of course, the the nomination of Sarah Palin by the GOP would qualify as history to cry about. But, apparently, the crying was for other reasons then...
I agree that many good things happen all the time, most of them not greatly newsworthy. But this story was pure pablum.
Some would say that the bias against choosing a female candidate is so strong that it takes someone with the political muscle to be successful, but I sincerely hope this effort fails. There are several younger, more promising female political figures in both parties that have far less personal criminal baggage that I'd like to see given the chance to become President in the near future.
People help each other all the time. But this was not a story about an otherwise capable person caught in distressing circumstances beyond her control who is then helped by another capable person with the right skills and tools.
It was a schmaltzy story from a master of saccharine commentary. (See his gushing over how the nomination of Hillary Clinton makes us all proud to be Americans. I wish my dead mother were here to see this.... Not just Mom, but Poor Dead Mom....
To be a whole person ,a person whom hungers for all that life has to offer , the person who uses his mind and his heart who acts in his own self interest also who has compassion and empathy and is a person of honor and integrity. That person is an asset to humanity. Having Compassion and empathy for ,and differentiating between a mooch and a Struggling being makes me feel happy and alive. We all know that we didn't get here alone and we are a species that has benefited from cooperation and relationships. No one should be forced to do anything for any one else's behalf except their juvenile offspring. There are many facets and emotions to experience on this river of life and kindness has its benefits to the giver as well as the recipient. I believe it is one aspect that differentiates man from animals.
With respect to you,
DOB
You apparently missed the discussion here in the Gulch where it was asserted and defended that you are under no obligation to support your children. (Neither is anyone else required to support your children, but you are not.) And, moreover, if you could only save yourself or your child, one self-identified Objectivist here said that she would let the kid go to save herself. Just sayin'... your personal believes are yours, but they are not accepted by all here.
Myself, I would save my child, but that choice is mine to make. I do not require that other people live or die for their kids.
And BTW, a little time on YouTube will bring you too many cloying videos of natural animal enemies grooming each other and frolicking together. Your comments about people being better than animals was unfair to both people and animals.
Our minor children. Sorry for the offense to those of you who don't accept responsibility to your offspring ,for your actions. When I said we didn't get here alone I ment a human needs assistance to live once born if you think I am wrong about that well ..... If someone wouldn't save their child I want nothing to do with them objectivist or not.
I put no requirements to anyone in my previous comments , nor do I now.
I don't care if you accept my beliefs or not.
And I am awed and grateful for the intelligence of this online community.
Regarding doing something altruistic I prefer to call it a voluntary act of kindness.
The first thing I would have thought of is that the woman was using her kids to get benefits for her entitled nature. I would have walked past her too, ignoring the tears and manipulations that I have heard and see so many times. Dragging three kids out there would appear to me to be a way to make me feel sorry for them. And it may have indeed been the case.
Batteries dont go dead cause you leave a light on for a few minutes. They go dead because there is something wrong with the battery or the charging system. Usually there is warning (not always though).
The older gentlemen helping her is ok with me. He volunteered, either in some sort of altruistic act of washing away his guilt over being alive, or out of a true benevolent spirit inside him. Who knows actually.
Me dino tries to be a good-hearted prehistoric monster.
One day I came out of the local Walmart when I saw a pretty young lady flitting about saying "mama" a lot on her cell phone. She approached me and said she desperately needed gas money to get to Pell City.
I gave her ten bucks and thought no more about it.
About a month later I walked out of the same Walmart and saw the same young lady flitting about and pretending to talk to her mama.
She approached me and said she desperately needed gas money to get to Pell City.
I said, "Remember me? You told me you needed to get to the same place about a month ago."
The girl's eyes popped wide and she took of running.
I walked on shaking my head. There's hundreds if not thousands of parking lots for a moocher to work all about the Birmingham area.
That usually nips it in the bud and they walk off.
FRANCISCO is right- its a war out there and we have to take sides.
When they ask if I have any change, I tell them YES, but I wont give it to you....
There was nothing to indicate she did not have a job. She was dressed well for one thing.
She was running a pretty good con save for being stupid enough to work the same place.
Bet Shillary would like to hire her , though that succubus moocher may resent being paid less than a man
And most of all, I'm POed at the idiots who do give them money. They're causing the problem. Any ideas on how to discourage the practice without making it a crime?
The most memorable one was a big muscular dude, who asked old limping dino for money when I walked out of a gun show with an AR-15 in my hands.
I thought he may try to mug me for the rifle, which was of course empty without an inserted clip. Kept my distance.
Next person I saw was a security guard, who I sent running after the beggar.
One thing you wrote I don't get. The link is all I found about "Heinlein's jar" when I tried to look it up.
https://www.bing.com/images/search?q=...
As many times as I've seen Heinlein's name when I've looked in on the Gulch, maybe I should look for him in the science fiction section during my next Barnes & Noble visit.
Come to think of it, I DID read Starship Troopers after I saw the movie.
I am more upset at the people who DO give them money, as they are just enabling the bad behavior that got these people into trouble in the first place.
Maybe the crowds get bigger each week because the govt is disabling the economic engine of the country and jobs are being sucked down the vacuum of regulations and impediments to job creation.
How could you at all actually help that woman without completely restructuring her personal philosophy? Maybe we should send her a copy of an Ayn Rand book. But which one?
I down voted everything back to 1. Let's think this through.
I would have helped without question. I am, after all, a volunteer responder. I chose that and do it easily.
My point was only that the story was that her deep and many needs validated his helping. The needier the better.
Government aid versus private action is not the issue here. We do not have government emergency repair vehicles touring the roads.
I see the same beggars at the same corners here in Austin. Sometimes I see them at different corners. It's a living. One day, I was running errands and was flush with cash and I saw a girl and dog at an intersection. I gave her five bucks. What's not to like about a girl and a dog? But I have not seen her since.
One of the reasons that I moved to Austin is that when the temperatures are over 100, you can find those beggars on the medians selling bottles of iced water. It is very entrepreneurial here.
I lived in FL for several years, and I suspect the answer is she's trying to marry a geek who will get her life stabilized
I understand what you're saying about it being not a news story, closer to an Onion story, but I'm sucker for happy stories of people helping one another of their own free will.
You're right that it probably wouldn't be story by anyone's reckoning if some old guy saw a reasonably-affluent middle-aged person like me trying to push-start my car and gave me a jump. I still like the spirit.